Flourish Fabulously.
I have been asked, by authentically beautiful and inspiring women, “How do I FLOURISH FABULOUSLY? I really would like to know!”.
Huh. Here I thought they ‘had it down’ already.
The REALIZATION? Even the most successful, seemingly together and fashionably fantastic women, at times, long for the Flourishing Fabulous life experience.
Flourishing Fabulously. It just sounds FUN doesn’t it? But really…WHAT IS IT?
Here is what it is NOT:
control over all aspects of our lives
beautiful skin and a body that looks “awesome” naked OR clothed
financial freedom (AKA lotsa money)
well-behaved, quiet, children
endless supply of energy and confidence
catwalk skills in 6 inch heels
the ability to actively pursue your passions 100% of the time
little or no body hair with exceptionally perky breasts
work balanced with life
life balanced with work
Many of these things are what we think we want, have been told we want or are trying to convince ourselves we want. STOP WANTING.
Wanting leads us to be off balance. Stretching our fingertips out, on our tippy toes, reaching for our desires that inch farther away when almost in our grasp. Eventually we just fall over.
Flourishing Fabulously is all about having two feet on the ground. DIRT BETWEEN OUR TOES. We flourish when we focus on CREATING over WANTING and MANIFESTING over LONGING.
Here are the FOUNDATIONS for Flourishing Fabulous.
Ownership. Acceptance. Worthiness. Compassion. Opportunity.
Ownership: The sum of who I am is the collection of every aspect of me. I OWN my body, spirit & mind. This includes my thoughts and actions. I absolutely, no holds barred, take responsibility for my life.
Acceptance: The ZEN of ownership. I feel peace and love towards my body, spirit & mind. Acceptance does not infer unchangeability, rather it is an organic and ongoing experience of self-love.
Worthiness: The opposite of lowliness. The sanctuary of worthiness is uninhabitable for all forms of guilt. Above all, worthiness is the bone-deep belief that the universe is DESERVING of my spirit. I am worthy because I AM ME.
Compassion: Enlightened self-love. Kindness and empathy gifted to myself, and others, is and always will be the most FULFILLING path to my greatest destiny.
Opportunity: There are moments provided to me DAILY that require my spirit and conscious to be OPEN to new possibilities. I will FLOURISH in every element of my life when I embrace, with personal confidence, the non-accidental collisions of my POTENTIAL with life’s opportunities.
Flourishing Fabulously is a MOVEMENT. It is self worth:evolved.
Explore your passions. Live your potential. Feel beautiful. BE SEXY.
From tips for a FABULOUS bathing suit shopping experience to practical strategies to FLOURISH in your career and family life– I intend to UNDEFINE what it means to be a valued woman.
Stay tuned. Together we are going to rock our world.
