Are your goals manifesting momentum or driving you to sad and stuck?
Does this sound like you?
“I’m VERY determined. I KNOW what I WANT and am working HARD to reach my goals. But I need to figure out how to get there with less frustration and confusion.”
Whoa! Stop right there. Goal digging doesn’t have to be such a heavy burden. Plus, anxiety can lead to water retention. Not good.
Two insights for you….
Being determined, super loyal, highly passionate and obsessively disciplined DOES NOT necessarily lead to a fulfilling life experience. I know a whole lot of people who are “living their dreams” and completely unconnected with an authentically exciting life at the EXACT same time. Don’t you?
Frustration and confusion are symptoms of misaligned passions and purpose.
Too often, as determined diva’s of doing it all, we become so laser focused on our “goals” that we forget to embrace the EVOLVING nature of who we are.
The results? Emotional chaos and an overwhelming waste of energy.
Think about yourself five years ago. What were your life circumstances? How have they changed? How about your health, spirituality, relationships and life habits?
Are you allowing your goals and life strategies to evolve as much as you have?
Recognizing what is, and what is not, working (including visions, dreams & daily life rituals) is how successful people ROCK their lives.
Adaptability. Flexibility. RESILIENCY. Bring it on.
SOMETIMES THE COURAGE IT TAKES TO STEP AWAY FROM YOUR LONG PURSUED GOALS ACTUALLY GIVES YOU THE CONFIDENCE TO MOVE TOWARDS YOUR MOST PASSIONATE DESIRES.
You are NOT failing if you choose to alter your goals. I’m going to say that again because I have witnessed how embracing this statement leads to transformational PIVOT POINTS.
YOU ARE NOT FAILING IF YOU CHOOSE TO ALTER YOUR GOALS.
When your mind, your heart, your soul energy is RESISTING…it’s time to REFLECT and RE-STRATEGIZE.
