Both are dangerous questions because they often lead people down an obsessive and endless path of “needing to know” versus “needing to grow”.
May I suggest a different approach? Stop ASKING yourself what you want to do with your life and start DOING things that will bring you more clarity…a clarity that can only be created by taking action.
Life is a journey. An ongoing exploration. An evolving, unpredictable and often chaotic collision of experiences, expectations, wants, needs and circumstances. You don’t have to have it all figured out.
I’ll say that again ‘cause I think it one of the most important lessons I have ever learned. YOU DON’T HAVE TO HAVE IT ALL FIGURED OUT.
So stop asking what you want to be when you grow up.
Start asking what excites you? What genuinely gets you going with energy?
When you build your goals around what excites you everything changes. You might even come to realize that what you thinking you have been wanting for so long is actually not what excites you anymore. And so often it is our loyalty to our goals, to who we think we are, who we expect ourselves to be….that seriously gets in our way of ROCKING OUR LIVES.
Is it possible? Is it possible that what you have been saying you want, or saying who you should be for so long, is NOT actually what you want or who you want to be?
From helping many people to get unstuck and to gain clarity I believe IT IS POSSIBLE. And very common.
So how do you know if your goals have changed? How do you know if you have changed? Easy. I guarantee you that they have.
Embrace the chaos of discovery. Embrace your confusion. Be gentle on yourself. If you are here, reading this, you are open to creating better for yourself. So give yourself some love. Stop shaming. Start accepting. Stop wanting. Start doing.
At the end of each day do you want to FEEL?
Driven or drained?
Exhausted or excited?
Shameful or shining?
Wanting or creating?
Loathing or loving?
Hard or hopeful?
Confused or confident?
Everyday which of the above are you choosing? Your partner, mother, father, mentor, coach, friends, pastor, priest, online connections, or hell the Starbucks Barista….they can not choose for you. YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR ROCKING YOUR LIFE.
From awareness you can create change. Every client of mine starts their time with me by doing my exclusive Life Inventory Assessment. It’s all about taking inventory on who you are, where you are at, what you want and who you want to be. It takes a bit of time but believe me….it is time well spent. It’s a strategic and powerful process of taking stock on what is, and what is not, working for you in your life experience.
I would like to gift you my Life Inventory Assessment. CLICK HERE FOR FILE–> Life Inventory Assessment.
I am only offering it to my Rockers online—thank you for being a part of my tribe. I so adore the support and inspiration from each and everyone of you! Don’t forget to join The OFFICIAL ROCK YOUR LIFE FB GROUP to seek support and share questions/experiences. And if you would like the Life Inventory Assessment as a word file simply email me at trisha @ passionigniter.ca.
You need to do this. For your kids. For your relationships. Most importantly, FOR YOU.
Enjoy the process,
My ROCK YOUR LIFE Success Program is waiting for you. Ready to get UNSTUCK and create seriously positive momentum in your life? Start tomorrow! CLICK HERE for all the details or BOOK YOUR OWN 1on1 15 MINUTE COMPLIMENTARY SESSION WITH ME TO LEARN MORE.